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Another Support Con Job in Australia - PROJECT KIDSAFE FOUNDATION LTD

Description: INTERNATIONAL ADVISORY Fraud, Abuse and Exploitation of Survivors Circumstances. Personal Agendas and Religious Connections

Keywords: AUSTRALIA - Clergy Abuse Victims Industry - Exploitation, Scapegoating and Abuse of Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse by Clergy, Exploiting the Abused

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(Survivors Australia is now PROJECT KIDSAFE FOUNDATION LTD fromPROJECT KIDSAFE FOUNDATION LTD - 30/03/2012 7E4368264 2 205ANotification of Resolution Changing Company Name)

 

INTERNATIONAL ADVISORY

More exploitation of survivors by those putting themselves up as experienced advocates. Not the most recent by any means, however the most blatant perhaps. Informants say that Nickii Wells who invalidly claim to be the person who established Survivors Australia (ya gotta spin it up for the sucker survivors) was recently caught out in a number of blatant cases of plagarism.
 
Ms Wells writings most likely due to prolific plagarisms are so full of poor and dangerous advice that consistently contradicts itself that it has become an exercise in humor at the pathetic attempts at spinning up someone who is in so obviously in league with the church. Informants state that the good Jesuit Riley of Sydney is putting up for the rent for Ms Wells while this ugly sister to the devil appears to pocket proceeds intended for survivors - sounds like the everyday normal Catholic ethos in operation.
 
The following are just 2 of many examples of plagarism.  Note the new vague references added to these pages after Survivors Australia were made aware of their criminal actions. The laugh of the day was the several outbursts by the said leading light of Survivors across Australia in another semi-plagarised piece on anger followed up by an 11th century code of conduct that would have made the best psychopaths and power and control freaks blush with embarrassment. To top off the covering up of criminal events in that oh so Christian way Jodie Death (QUT) of the bogus survivors survey (prepared to be traumatized so that the relugious may say look at all the good work they are doing) jumped to the defence of her financial bleedline with this little gem  as her part in ensuring that the funds keep rolling into the hands of the wrong people so that the information held by survivors can make its way back into the church system to ensure the continuation of the program of moving priestly abusers and covering up for the mantally deluded who support and protect them. The aptly name Ms Death has been trying to run this most ill-gotten survey for survivors for some months - hopefully with little effect as there is a genuine need to protect survivors from those who would exploit them and their position. Naturally not all the responsibility can be laid at the feet of Death as the entire ethics department and more at QUT were notified of this blatant plagarism - their response has not been pearly white as their silence appears to support the noptions put out by Jodie Death.
 
Link to information on the poorly designed survivors survey which according to Jodie Death is to provide information to church bodies on how to "manage" survivors of clergy abuse although conversatios with Ms Death assured us that she was already well skilled in the black arts of discrimination against some sectors of the survivor community - particularly those who do not support the exploitation of survivors via Survivors Austrlia. Note if you are technically minded a review of the technology processes will show that the offered anonymity is simply not technically possible - insider informants speak of a feedback loop to Survivors Australia who is on a national push to such in more suckers as numbers count when you are on the exploitation trail. http://www.survivorsaustralia.org/#!church-abuse

Link to one of the original plagarisms (seems this and other pages have been removed as at Feb 18 2012.  http://www.survivorsaustralia.org/apps/blog/tag/child-abuse
Another removed page at Survivors Australia web site HOW DO SURVIVORS LEARN TO TRUST AFTER ABUSE Trust seems to be the operative word here - abuse of trust is an obvious habit.
 
 
Original article plagarised by Nickii Wells by Julie Cohen on Apr 04, 2008

http://www.dailystrength.org/health_blogs/julie-cohen/article/learning-to-trust-after-a-lifetime-of-abuse-a-survivor-s-issue

Learning to Trust after a Lifetime of Abuse: A Survivor's Issue

Sometimes when the abuse stops a victim may know that they are physically safe yet their body still reacts as if the violence was continuing. It can feel as if there are miles in between knowing that you are safe and organically feeling that you are safe. In fact, the process of discovering what is truly safe can at times be unnerving and strange.

For instance, often when a survivor begins to form new non-violent relationships with friends, romantic partners or even a therapist, trusting these "safe" people can be confusing. I call it the waiting for the other shoe to drop phenomena. For those of you that have not heard of the "cycle of violence," it represents what often happens in a violent relationship. It's a three part cycle starting with the tension building phase and then moves into a violent episode and finally a honeymoon phase. Although this pattern was created originally to focus on intimate partner abuse it does apply to other relational abuse such as a child/parent.

A victim who experiences chronic abuse learns that an attack will always happen even if they don't know when. They begin to feel an anticipatory anxiety in the tension building phase. The anxiety of waiting for that attack to happen can be immense. Sometimes, the anxiety of waiting seems more painful than the actual anticipated attack. For the sole reason of relieving the anxiety a victim may even provoke a perceived perpetrator to get the attack over and done.

When the abuser is out of the picture and all abuse has stopped, a victim can continue to feel anticipatory anxiety towards someone even if logically they know that person is not abusive. They are in a continual period of waiting for an attack to happen. The body and mind have to begin to work together to understand that not everyone will hurt them and that the world can be a safe place.



This can be a long process but don't give up. If you were a victim of chronic physical and/or sexual abuse and find it hard to trust people I would encourage you to talk about the trust issues with a therapist, friends or family. Your work may be learning to tolerate and eventually overcome the anxiety of "waiting for an attack." Eventually you will learn that most people will not hurt you. By doing so, you will be able to develop meaningful attachments to others without fear.

 

HOW DO SURVIVORS LEARN TO TRUST AFTER ABUSE

16 Jan 2012

LEARNING TO TRUST AFTER ABUSE. Sometimes survivors may know that they are physically and/or emotionally safe yet their body and mind still reacts as if the abuse was continuing. It can feel as if there are miles in between knowing that you are safe and actually feeling that you are safe. In fact, the process of discovering what is truly safe can at times be unnerving and strange. Often when a sur...vivor begins to form new "safe" relationships with friends, romantic partners or even a therapist, trusting these "safe" people can be confusing. I like to call it the "something bad's gotta happen" phenomena. Survivors have learnt that something bad will happen even if they don't know when. They begin to feel an anticipatory anxiety in the tension building phase. The anxiety of waiting for that "bad thing"to happen can be immense. Sometimes, the anxiety of waiting seems more painful than the actual anticipated "bad thing". Survivors are sometimes in a continual period of waiting for an attack to happen. The body and mind have to begin to work together to understand that not everyone will hurt them and that the world can be a safe place. This can be a long process but don't give up. If you were a victim of chronic physical and/or sexual abuse and find it hard to trust people I would encourage you to talk about the trust issues with a therapist, friends or family. Your work may be learning to tolerate and eventually overcome the anxiety of "waiting for a bad thing to happen." Eventually you will learn that most people will not hurt you. By doing so, you will be able to develop meaningful attachments to others without fear.

 

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http://www.marymin.org/support.html

It is easy to get wrapped up in your friend's problems and lose sight of yourself. You may also experience “contagious depression,”� or you may get your own issues triggered. Recognize that your feelings of frustration, helplessness, and anger are perfectly normal.


http://www.survivorsaustralia.org/apps/blog/tag/stress

 

THECHOCOLATE ANTI-DEPRESSION DIET

22 Jan 2012

from Survivors Australia

matches with http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-128265/What-foods-help-beat-depression.html

 

What foods can help beat depression?

Thereis a chemical in our brain called Serotonin which is believedto promote calmness and ease depression. Now, foodsthemselves don't actually contain serotonin, but what you can do is choose to eat foods which may be able to tip the balance in favour of increased serotonin production in the brain.

Other dietary suggestions which may help are to get a sufficient intake of essential fats from sources like vegetable oil, nuts, green leafy vegetables and fish. A very low fat intake has been linked with higher rates of depression and suicide.

So, to be more specific, here's a list of food 'uppers' you can try:

• Brazil nuts - very rich in selenium, which research shows may help prevent low mood.
• Peas - good source of vitamin B1 needed for healthy nerves.
• Liver - very rich in iron and vitamin B6.
• Sardines - rich in potassium, iron and B vitamins - all needed to maintain healthy brain chemistry. Omega-3s in oily fish may help overcome certain brain disorders.
• Dark chocolate - the feel good factor comes from the flavour, aroma and the way it melts in your mouth.
• Chillies - help promote the release of pleasure-boosting endorphins in the brain.
• High fibre breakfast cereal - rich in carbohydrates to boost blood sugar and fortified with B vitamins for a healthy nervous system.
• Bananas - supply mood-boosting carbohydrates and vitamin B6.

 

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